How to Choose Your Coach
How to Choose Your Coach
Choosing the Right Coach
If you’re reading this, you probably already know you want to work with a coach. You don’t need me to convince you of the value or explain what coaching can do – you’re past that. You’re ready to invest in your transformation and you want to make sure you choose the right guide for your journey.
But just in case you’ve never worked with a coach before, here are the key questions that will help you find your perfect match – someone who sees your potential and refuses to let you play small.
1. What Do I Really Want?
Here’s where most people get it backwards – they think they need to have it all figured out before they can get help. Wrong. The right coach doesn’t need you to show up with a perfect vision. They need you to show up with honesty about where you are.
You’ve heard “Ask, and you shall receive,” but here’s what they don’t tell you: sometimes what you think you want isn’t big enough. A powerful coach will help you discover what you’re actually capable of, not just what feels safe to want right now. If you already have a vision, they’ll help you expand it beyond what you thought was possible.
The magic happens when you get real about what’s actually going on. Are you playing it safe? Settling for “good enough”? Ready to step into your power but scared of what that might look like? Your coach isn’t there to judge your starting point – they’re there to help you claim your destination and make it inevitable.
2. What's the Real Investment?
Let’s cut through the BS about price. The real investment isn’t what you pay – it’s whether you’re ready to commit to becoming the person who lives the life you want. When you work with the right coach, you’re not buying sessions. You’re investing in your transformation.
Here’s what I bring: over 20 years of guiding people through their hero’s journeys, 17,000+ hands-on experiences with human transformation, and a framework that turns your challenges into your greatest plot twists. But here’s what you bring that matters most: your willingness to show up, do the work, and stop playing small.
The real magic happens when you stop asking “How much does it cost?” and start asking “What’s it costing me to stay where I am?” Because the right coach doesn’t just support your journey – they refuse to let you settle for anything less than the extraordinary life you’re meant to claim.
This isn’t about finding someone to hold your hand. It’s about finding your guide to greatness.
3. What kind of Partnership Do I Need?
Here’s the truth: the magic isn’t in finding a coach who fits some category. It’s about finding someone who can read you – your energy, your needs, your potential – and respond accordingly.
Some days you’ll need structure and a clear roadmap. Other days you’ll need space to explore and discover your path. Sometimes you’ll need tough love when you’re making excuses. Sometimes you’ll need deep compassion when you’re being too hard on yourself.
I don’t believe in one-size-fits-all formulas or rigid coaching styles. This isn’t about finding someone who makes you comfortable. It’s about finding someone who can dance with your process – providing the structure when you need direction, the freedom when you need to explore, the challenge when you’re playing small, and the support when you’re stepping into your power.
What kind of partnership makes you feel both supported and unstoppable?
4. Do They Walk Their Talk?
Here’s a non-negotiable: your coach better be living what they’re teaching. I don’t just talk about stepping into your power – I’m actively doing it. I’ve written a bestselling book, fought through a 5-year patent process, and built a product that’s sold worldwide. But here’s what matters more: I’m still pushing my own edges.
Right now, I’m conquering challenges of public speaking and getting comfortable on camera because I refuse to let comfort zones define my limits. Growth never stops – not for me, not for you. I have my own coach because I believe in the work so deeply that I invest in it myself.
Your coach shouldn’t be someone who “figured it all out” years ago and now dispenses wisdom from the mountaintop. You want someone who’s in the arena with you, actively writing their next chapter while helping you write yours.
If your coach isn’t walking their own hero’s journey, how can they guide you through yours? Look for someone who shows up for their own transformation the way they’ll show up for yours.
5. What's My Heart Saying?
Here’s a non-negotiable: your coach better be living what they’re teaching. I don’t just talk about stepping into your power – I’m actively doing it. I’ve written a bestselling book, fought through a 5-year patent process, and built a product that’s sold worldwide. But here’s what matters more: I’m still pushing my own edges.
Right now, I’m conquering challenges of public speaking and getting comfortable on camera because I refuse to let comfort zones define my limits. Growth never stops – not for me, not for you. I have my own coach because I believe in the work so deeply that I invest in it myself.
Your coach shouldn’t be someone who “figured it all out” years ago and now dispenses wisdom from the mountaintop. You want someone who’s in the arena with you, actively writing their next chapter while helping you write yours.
If your coach isn’t walking their own hero’s journey, how can they guide you through yours? Look for someone who shows up for their own transformation the way they’ll show up for yours.
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